bomber queen

introducing to you my bomber queen, my future wife who puts me to sleep each night. although we’re miles-miles away but she’ll never fail to put me to sleep each night. you’ll wonder how she did it. it’s by hearing her voice each night that puts me feeling safe and warm.

having the new title doesn’t make any difference in her. it’s still the same old lovely her. being bombed or accidentally bombed in the game bomberman wasn’t actually my fault, blame it on the person i’m playing with. she got me all distracted that i wasn’t really looking into the game. excuses, excuses, excuses you’ll say. haha. i have to admit i’m a weaker opponent compared to you. so bear with it. i think we should increased to 10 rounds.

our birthday is coming. quick quick, what’s your wish?

if i don’t

if i don’t think of you,
why is that my inbox is always full of your messages?
why i never hesitate to take a 50 minutes ride just to see you?
why i always insist on seeing you everytime?

if i don’t think of you,
why is that i often tell myself to put you first before myself?
why is that you often warn me to stop “spamming” your inbox and email?
why is that i am always planning ahead to make or do something special for you?

if i don’t think of you,
why is that my room is filled with the things of you?
why is that i prayed for your well-being most of the time?
why is that i always go against your will of not to send you home?

if i don’t think of you,
why is that i often try to make you happy?
why is that i made you felt that i was being over-concern?
why is that i am staying up writing these?

if i don’t think of you,
who else would i thought of when i’m next to you?
who else would come into my dream every night?
who else would it be none other than you…
my dearest Lovelle.

you sang to me by marc anthony.

thinking you’re right

thinking you’re right versus the right thinking. which one should you adopt?

thinking you’re right doesn’t always seem to lead to the right way. having you’re always right and everyone else wrong is even worst. so, having the right thinking would be the best. if you don’t see the benefits of it right now doesn’t mean it’s not good. benefits will come in a long way from now. adopt it and you’ll know.

i put this up because somehow i fall into the first category. having you’re always right is not a good thing after all. you’ll tend to hurt people around you, people that you love and i did. human-to-human relationship is a wonder. really! if you try to hurt the other, you’ll hurt yourself too.

when you say nothing at all by ronan keating.

unbreakable

that’s how i want my love to be like – unbreakable.  august 16 marks the day where our love grew to be 6 months old. it simply means that we’ve been together for 6 months. it’s neither a long period nor a short period to say about but the thing is that we achieved it together. the keyword is together! a relationship can be considered a job that you take on. it requires responsibilities, commitment, time, effort, appreciation, etc. so, i’m happy to say that we’ve done our job for the past 6 months and achieve this little milestone today.

in order to celebrate this little milestone, i’ve decided to give her a little surprise – bake her her favourite cheesecake. in fact, not only she tried it but her family tried it too. haha. i’m a kitchen-guy too!  love often drives people to do unimaginable sort of things. you’ll be surprised! weird and yet wonderful, you’ll be happy doing it.

i don’t mind getting my hands dirty if you would let me help you pick your shoe and wear it for you. i felt it’s like a privilege to help your loved one to wear it! that’s how amazing love can be. self-sacrifice, willingness, etc. will come into work.

sorry for being full of “shits” most of the time. there’s nothing i could offer more than apologies over and over again. i felt bad doing it too. would  you still love a person who’s full of “shits”? would you still love me?

unbreakable by westlife.

lifetime together

i’m often in love with your saying, “darling, we have a lifetime together. so what’s the hurry?” then, you’ll get me thinking, “yeah. you’re right! we do have lifetime together.” who doesn’t want to be with the one you love for a lifetime? well, maybe a lifetime wasn’t even enough for some people like me.

i had a great time today. previously, watching tv wasn’t any fun at all.maybe i wasn’t watching with the right people but today, i’m truly happy watching with you. maybe it’s because you’re so lively and that affected me greatly. i love to be “couch potatoes” with you. haha.

our relationship has went through bumps like any normal relationship do. well, we talked it out, we find ways to it and here we are. sometimes, i do feel that i’m not patient enough, i’m not understanding enough, i’m not romantic enough. i do and i hope i will change for the better. i still love the love i have.

i love the love i have

some of you might think this is mushy but i beg to differ. haha. i do and i really do love the love i have. although there are imperfections somewhere along the relationship as i get to know more about her but one thing i learn is to accept her as she is. honest – key to every healthy relationship. if you think something is not right, share to the other person but don’t expect changes in return. you’re just merely sharing your point of view but you’re not changing that person entirely.

sharing is also another key to maintain a relationship. by sharing, you’re letting yourself being understood by another person. you’re revealing your innermost feelings and concerns about certain things.

bonding is another essential thing in a relationship. pairing games and activities can promote such bonding. learning to work together as a team will be beneficial for both as living together in a later time will not be easy. starting early might not be a bad idea after all.

- the starfish that you took at suntec city.
- the suit and dress that i wished we both could wear together. we would both look great in it isn’t it?
- things that reminds me of you and also things that would cheer me up whenever i’m feeling down.

invisible leash

there’s so many things i want to share about relationship but i just don’t have the time to do it. so let me briefly explain on this topic that i thought of at the moment.

invisible leash. what do i mean by that? alright! when you’re in a relationship, there’s this invisible leash that bonds both of you together. it’s not of your choice or anyone’s choice to leash each other but somehow it’s there. therefore, i name it invisible because you can neither see it or touch it.

somehow it relates to how much trust you put in another person, how much care you put in another person, how much concern you give to another person, how much freedom you give to another person and etc. if you gave too much, it seems that you’re too sticky. if you gave too little, it seems that you don’t care. therefore i describe it as a leash.

summary, if you pull too tight, the other person will not be able to breathe. if you pull too little, you might distance away from one another. so, learn the way of flying a kite. pull a little, bit by bit. let it go,  fly high a bit.

i admire the way she mentioned about trust. in a relationship, we should give trust in each other. “i trust in you and i hope the same from you too”. loving isn’t it?

meet the parents

although it was just a drop-by but it got me all anxious and worked up for it. thinking of what to buy because i can’t just drop by empty-handed right? thinking of what to wear because i can’t just simply wear something casual right? haha. in the end, i’ve got pastries from le cafe. it’s nice!

went over and had my lunch with them. just a simple lunch. saw her dad & mom for the first time. i think i did all right. it wasn’t that bad for my first-time. we had some talks. became the pc-doctor of the day! saved another computer’s life! haha. the dust as thick as carpet. i was glad to meet them and when it’s my turn to bring you home? haha.

sometimes, i just think that i’m an annoyance who simply don’t admit that i’m wrong. so, i guess i deserves all the beating. nevertheless, it wasn’t really pain for i have a very thick skin. please beat me more often! haha. maybe my skin will be softer then. beat me if you can! haha.

let’s take a look of some pictures i took.

- just love “wang cai”. he’s giving me a wink you see.
- bought a pair of NUS shirts from FO.